I have become increasingly convinced that one of the most overlooked dimensions of personality isn’t simply how we think or what we feel. It’s where our attention naturally lives in time.
Think about the last difficult conversation you had. Maybe it was with your partner, a friend, your roommate, or someone at work. One person kept bringing up what had happened before. Another insisted on dealing with what needed attention right now. Someone else was already talking abo...

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