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Relationships

Relationships Type 4 Type 8 Understanding the Enneagram
October 18, 2026October 17, 2026

Using the Enneagram to Build Better Marital Relationships, Part 2

Patrick J. Aspell, Ph.D. & Dee Dee Aspell, M.A. (2) Relationship Styles People interact with each other in relationships in terms of similarities and...

by Patrick J. Aspell, Ph.D. & Dee Dee Aspell, M.A.
Family Dynamics Personal Growth/Self-Development Relationships

Using the Enneagram to Build Better Marital Relationships, Part I

Patrick J. Aspell, Ph.D. & Dee Dee Aspell, M.A. It is obvious that couples share similarities and differences regarding race, color, height, weight, speech...

by Patrick J. Aspell, Ph.D. & Dee Dee Aspell, M.A. October 10, 2026October 8, 2026
Family Dynamics Relationships Type Insights Understanding the Enneagram

Enchanted April

Mike MacLeod Enchanted April is the story of a group whose lives are changed by a month spent at a Italian villa. The theme...

by Mike MacLeod September 20, 2026September 13, 2026
Personal Growth/Self-Development Relationships Type 2

A “Two” Apologizes

Amy Zoll Dear Intense Relationships of a Lifetime, This is a letter of apology to those of you who I thought needed my love,...

by Amy Zoll July 31, 2026July 25, 2026
Business/Workplace Personal Growth/Self-Development Relationships

Managing Conflict the Enneagram Way

Dee Dee and Patrick Aspell Disagreement and conflict appear to be inevitable in life and at work. How you respond to conflict is the...

by Dee Dee and Patrick Aspell July 6, 2026July 3, 2026
Passions Relationships Type 4 Type 5 Type 9 Understanding the Enneagram

Bridges Revisited: Authorial Intent and Movie Typing

Michael G. Huber (Type Four) Being an avid student of the writings of Robert James Waller, I greeted the release of the film The...

by Michael G. Huber June 29, 2026June 29, 2026
History Relationships Type Insights

Relationships—A Course With Don Riso & Russ Hudson

Andrea Isaacs and Jack Labanauskas About 60 people gathered for the first class on “The Enneagram and Relationships” offered in New York City. It...

by Andrea Isaacs and Jack Labanauskas June 12, 2026June 5, 2026
Fixations Passions Relationships Type 1 Type 3 Type 4 Type 5 Type 9 Understanding the Enneagram Virtues

The Bridges of Madison County — “as Seen”

as Seen by a Type Four With a Type Nine Husband Laurie Huffman By brief way of introduction, I am a 4 with equal...

by Laurie Huffman June 2, 2026May 18, 2026
Family Dynamics Passions Relationships Virtues

The Bridges of Madison County

Jack Labanauskas Occasionally there is a book, a film or a public figure that appears to contain a classic embodiment of an Enneagram type....

by Jack Labanauskas May 29, 2026May 17, 2026
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