Brenda and Steve Mills
Brenda: A few months ago a friend and I were discussing true love and she asked me, “What’s your ideal mate? I mean if you had it to do all over again, would you still marry a man with the eight fixation?” At the time I said I thought my husband and I were perfectly matched, but questions like that can burrow into you and create little worlds inside you all their own.
So I’ve been thinking. Trapped inside this four fixation, this envy, melancholy, originality spiral, who...
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