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Tag: Relationships

Relationships Type 5

Couples’ Relationship & the Enneagram 5

In a couple’s relationship, 5’s are self sufficient, nonintrusive, calm and “low maintenance.”  5’s motto is, “I won’t ask anything of you and you...

by Michelle Joy June 30, 2020September 12, 2023
Relationships Type 6

The Enneagram 6 in Couples’ Relationships

This month, let’s look at some common patterns of Type 6 in relationship. In relationships, Type 6’s are supportive, caring, tuned-in, principled, thoughtful &...

by Michelle Joy May 1, 2020September 26, 2023
Relationships

The Enneagram in Couples Relationships

By Michelle Joy This month, let’s look at some common patterns of Type 8 in relationship. 8’s are protective, direct and expect that same...

by Michelle Joy January 1, 2020September 12, 2023
Relationships

Couples’ Relationships & The Enneagram: Type 2

Let’s look at some common patterns of Type 2 in relationship. 2’s are caring, attentive, thoughtful, giving, accommodating and nurturing. They are tuned into...

by Michelle Joy November 1, 2019January 16, 2025
Relationships Type 7

Sex, Love, & Your Personality. Type Seven: The Enthusiast in Love

Explicit Warning: This article will be talking about topics related to sex. Sevens with a Sexual subtype, whom Ichazo associates with “suggestibility,” are enthusiastic...

by Mona Coates and Judith Searle June 30, 2012October 27, 2023
Applications Relationships The Nine Types Type 1 Type Insights

Sex, Love & Your Personality type 1

Type One, the Perfectionist in Love Mona Coates and Judith Searle Ones are generally focused on improving themselves and the world around them. Self-preservation...

by Mona Coates and Judith Searle November 11, 2011May 3, 2025
Relationships Type 5

Dating Challenges for Type Five

Peter Zappel Written by Peter Zappel Several years ago the CBS show 60 Minutes ran a segment on Finland, the quintessential Enneagram type 5...

by Peter Zappel February 1, 2005September 8, 2023
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