In a couple’s relationship, 5’s are self sufficient, nonintrusive, calm and “low maintenance.”  5’s motto is, “I won’t ask anything of you and you won’t ask anything of me.” 

Type 5’s are reluctant to reveal themselves or make their inner self known to their partner. They are also reluctant to actively seek out their partner’s perspectives about relationship issues to avoid overwhelm, as well as potential expectations that may be set up. 5’s can also intellectualize partner’s c...

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