I would like to respond to the letter from “Laura in Ames” which appeared in David Daniels’column in the July/August issue. I am a recovering Four who is trying hard all the time to overcome my natural Four tendencies and I also have a sister who is a Four but who still seems deeply mired in her Four troubles and point of view. I could identify some of myself in Laura’s approach to life, such as the holding back in social situations until I sense that the other person really wants to hear w...

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