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Relationships

Instincts and Subtypes Personal Growth/Self-Development Relationships Understanding the Enneagram

Subtypes in Relationship

Our primary subtype has a powerful effect on our relationships. We bring all three of our instincts into our relationships, yet one of these...

by Peter O'Hanrahan February 29, 2024February 7, 2024
Relationships Type 1

Enneagram Type 1 in Relationships

In relationships Type 1’s value integrity, being thorough, honesty, reliability, accountability, and being an effective couples’ team 1’s are great at coming up with...

by Michelle Joy February 1, 2021October 6, 2023
Centers of Intelligence Relationships

Love Triangle in the Heart Triad

I recently completed a therapy case that was a true brain-teaser and heart-twister: a love triangle that had endured for a dozen years. Armed...

by Mona Coates February 1, 2021October 6, 2023
Relationships Type 7

Enneagram Seven in Couples Relationships

This month, let’s look at some common patterns of Type 7 in relationship. In relationships, Type 7’s are spontaneous, fun-loving, creative, light-hearted, playful and...

by Michelle Joy January 1, 2021October 6, 2023
Relationships Type 4

Couple’s Relationships and Some Common Patterns of Enneagram Type Four

Our 4’s are perceptive, compassionate, intuitive, self-aware, emotionally honest, and introspective Potential Relationship Patterns: Over-identification with feelings. For 4’s their emotions bring a sense...

by Michelle Joy November 1, 2020September 26, 2023
Relationships Type 5

Couples’ Relationship & the Enneagram 5

In a couple’s relationship, 5’s are self sufficient, nonintrusive, calm and “low maintenance.”  5’s motto is, “I won’t ask anything of you and you...

by Michelle Joy June 30, 2020September 12, 2023
Relationships Type 6

The Enneagram 6 in Couples’ Relationships

This month, let’s look at some common patterns of Type 6 in relationship. In relationships, Type 6’s are supportive, caring, tuned-in, principled, thoughtful &...

by Michelle Joy May 1, 2020September 26, 2023
Relationships Type Insights

How to Get Along with Every E-Type

Type 1, The Reformer  Who they are:  Ones want to act with integrity and are afraid of being evil or corrupt. They focus on...

by Tamari Lewin May 1, 2020September 12, 2023
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