Skip to content
  • Subscribe
  • Login
Enneagram Monthly
  • Understanding the Enneagram
    • Centers of Intelligence
    • Triads
    • Passions
    • Fixations
    • Virtues
    • Holy Ideas
    • History
  • The Nine Types
    • Type Insights
      • Type 1
      • Type 2
      • Type 3
      • Type 4
      • Type 5
      • Type 6
      • Type 7
      • Type 8
      • Type 9
    • Instincts and Subtypes
    • Childhood Wounds
    • The Arrows
    • The Wings
  • Applications
    • Business/Workplace
    • Communication
    • Education
    • Family Dynamics
    • Leadership and Management
    • Personal Growth/Self-Development
    • Recovery and Addiction
    • Relationships
    • Spirituality
    • Team Building
    • Therapy and Counselling
  • Comparative Systems
    • Astrology
    • Biological Markers
    • Fourth way
    • Graphology
    • MBTI
    • Process Enneagram
  • Editorial and News
    • Book Reviews
    • Community Spotlights
    • Interviews
    • Letters from the Editor
    • Publications and Resources
    • Latest Research
    • Tests
    • Workshops and Events
Enneagram Monthly
Enneagram Monthly
  • Understanding the Enneagram
    • Centers of Intelligence
    • Triads
    • Passions
    • Fixations
    • Virtues
    • Holy Ideas
    • History
  • The Nine Types
    • Type Insights
      • Type 1
      • Type 2
      • Type 3
      • Type 4
      • Type 5
      • Type 6
      • Type 7
      • Type 8
      • Type 9
    • Instincts and Subtypes
    • Childhood Wounds
    • The Arrows
    • The Wings
  • Applications
    • Business/Workplace
    • Communication
    • Education
    • Family Dynamics
    • Leadership and Management
    • Personal Growth/Self-Development
    • Recovery and Addiction
    • Relationships
    • Spirituality
    • Team Building
    • Therapy and Counselling
  • Comparative Systems
    • Astrology
    • Biological Markers
    • Fourth way
    • Graphology
    • MBTI
    • Process Enneagram
  • Editorial and News
    • Book Reviews
    • Community Spotlights
    • Interviews
    • Letters from the Editor
    • Publications and Resources
    • Latest Research
    • Tests
    • Workshops and Events

Relationships

Childhood Wounds Education Personal Growth/Self-Development Relationships Spirituality

Seeing your child

“Love the child in front of you, not the one in your mind.” I don’t remember where or when I first saw this quote,...

by Barbara Whiteside September 28, 2009October 18, 2023
Personal Growth/Self-Development Relationships Spirituality

Wake up, You’re Already There

My Journey I have been exploring ways to get free of fixation since before I knew about fixation. I called it awakening or enlightenment...

by Lissa Friedman May 27, 2009October 18, 2023
Instincts and Subtypes Relationships

Subtypes in Relationships Part 5

Self-Pres with One-to-one The most important issue for this pair is negotiating the intimate relationship. The intensity of the One-to-ones can feel demanding, even...

by Peter O'Hanrahan January 1, 2009September 12, 2023
Business/Workplace Latest Research Relationships

The Quantum Enneagram Applied: The Need for Change

“Oh, you hate your job? Why didn’t you say so? There’s a support group for that. It’s called EVERYBODY, and they meet in the...

by Bill Dyke March 14, 2008September 14, 2023
Applications Education Relationships Spirituality Therapy and Counselling Type 2 Type 4 Type 7 Understanding the Enneagram

The Enneagram of Avoidances, Deficient Emptiness & the Plutonic Paradox of Space Part 1

When most people think of “the Enneagram” what they usually are referencing is the Enneagram of the Personality, but there are actually many enneagrams...

by Gary Rosenthal February 12, 2006June 23, 2025
Applications Business/Workplace Communication Leadership and Management Personal Growth/Self-Development Relationships

Ethics: In Their Own Voices

Lessons from Companies Who Use the Enneagram Successfully This is the third of three articles about the ethics involved when using the Enneagram in...

by Ginger Lapid Bogda January 12, 2006January 16, 2024
Relationships Type 5

Dating Challenges for Type Five

Peter Zappel Written by Peter Zappel Several years ago the CBS show 60 Minutes ran a segment on Finland, the quintessential Enneagram type 5...

by Peter Zappel February 1, 2005September 8, 2023
Applications Communication Education Relationships Therapy and Counselling Understanding the Enneagram

Sexuality, Gender Roles & the Enneagram

The first question we ask when a baby is born is: “Is it a boy or a girl?” Gender identity is the most basic...

by Judith Searle December 20, 1996October 6, 2023
Posts pagination
  • Previous Page
  • 1
  • …
  • 16
  • 17
  • 18
Main Nav Menu
  • Understanding the Enneagram
    • Centers of Intelligence
    • Triads
    • Passions
    • Fixations
    • Virtues
    • Holy Ideas
    • History
  • The Nine Types
    • Type Insights
      • Type 1
      • Type 2
      • Type 3
      • Type 4
      • Type 5
      • Type 6
      • Type 7
      • Type 8
      • Type 9
    • Instincts and Subtypes
    • Childhood Wounds
    • The Arrows
    • The Wings
  • Applications
    • Business/Workplace
    • Communication
    • Education
    • Family Dynamics
    • Leadership and Management
    • Personal Growth/Self-Development
    • Recovery and Addiction
    • Relationships
    • Spirituality
    • Team Building
    • Therapy and Counselling
  • Comparative Systems
    • Astrology
    • Biological Markers
    • Fourth way
    • Graphology
    • MBTI
    • Process Enneagram
  • Editorial and News
    • Book Reviews
    • Community Spotlights
    • Interviews
    • Letters from the Editor
    • Publications and Resources
    • Latest Research
    • Tests
    • Workshops and Events

Recent Posts

  • A Workshop with Helen Palmer — Essence Practices: Projection
  • Outward Bound
  • The Enneagram and the MBTI In Search of Common Ground, Part 1
  • A COUPLE FOR EVOLUTION: CLARIFY  •  AWAKEN  •  UNIFY
  • The Enneagram—A Pathway to the Soul

Recent Comments

  1. Chan Sok on Book Review: “I am the work” by Jeanette Van Stijn
  2. Chan Sok on BEHAVIOR: WHY WE BEHAVE THE WAY WE DO
  3. Chan Sok on Where Do You Live in Time?
  4. Chan Sok on Floating Islands and Flying Ideas: The Spirit of Type Seven
  5. Chan Sok on Odysseus Among the Lotus-Eaters: Enneagram Nine and the Temptation to Drift

“I have the impression that the Enneagram Monthly is the most open-minded and least politically perverted publication in its field. The very fact that the EM has been eager to interview me and Oscar Ichazo reveals an understanding and decency that makes it rise beyond what I have called 'the arrogant ignorance of the enneagram community'.”

Claudio Naranjo
Posts pagination
  • Previous Page
  • 1
  • …
  • 16
  • 17
  • 18

Enneagram Monthly

The Enneagram Monthly is an eclectic journal dedicated to fostering insightful discourse about the Enneagram, its current applications, and future potential. Established in 1995, the Enneagram Monthly stands as a globally recognized and influential hub for Enneagram advancements. We invite you to join us in embracing the excitement and boundless potential this journey offers.

  • Meet Our Team
  • About the Enneagram Monthly
  • Community Guidelines
  • Subscriber Terms and Conditions
  • Submissions
  • Contact Us
  • Subscriber Profile
  • Log Out
© 2025 - Enneagram Monthly. All Rights Reserved.
  • Understanding the Enneagram
    • Centers of Intelligence
    • Triads
    • Passions
    • Fixations
    • Virtues
    • Holy Ideas
    • History
  • The Nine Types
    • Type Insights
      • Type 1
      • Type 2
      • Type 3
      • Type 4
      • Type 5
      • Type 6
      • Type 7
      • Type 8
      • Type 9
    • Instincts and Subtypes
    • Childhood Wounds
    • The Arrows
    • The Wings
  • Applications
    • Business/Workplace
    • Communication
    • Education
    • Family Dynamics
    • Leadership and Management
    • Personal Growth/Self-Development
    • Recovery and Addiction
    • Relationships
    • Spirituality
    • Team Building
    • Therapy and Counselling
  • Comparative Systems
    • Astrology
    • Biological Markers
    • Fourth way
    • Graphology
    • MBTI
    • Process Enneagram
  • Editorial and News
    • Book Reviews
    • Community Spotlights
    • Interviews
    • Letters from the Editor
    • Publications and Resources
    • Latest Research
    • Tests
    • Workshops and Events
  • Subscribe
  • Login