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  • Understanding the Enneagram
    • Centers of Intelligence
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    • Passions
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    • Virtues
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    • History
  • The Nine Types
    • Type Insights
      • Type 1
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      • Type 5
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    • Instincts and Subtypes
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Relationships

Relationships Type 3 Type 5

The Achiever-Observer (Three-Five) Couple

Jennifer P. Schneider and Ron Corn A chapter from our forthcoming book, Understand Yourself, Understand Your Partner: The Essential Enneagram Guide to a Better...

by Jennifer P. Schneider and Ron Corn May 14, 2013November 15, 2023
Book Reviews Comparative Systems Personal Growth/Self-Development Publications and Resources Relationships Spirituality

Preface to Chapter 11

Susan Rhodes My newly-published book, The Integral Enneagram, focuses on the relationship between the enneagram and Ken Wilber’s Integral Operating System (IOS). One of...

by Susan Rhodes May 14, 2013November 15, 2023
Relationships Type 6 Type 8

The Detective-Leader (Six-Eight) Couple

Jennifer P. Schneider and Ron Corn This is another chapter from our forthcoming book Understand Yourself, Understand Your Partner:The Essential Enneagram Guide to a...

by Jennifer P. Schneider and Ron Corn March 13, 2013November 15, 2023
Relationships Type 8 Understanding the Enneagram

About Me

Helena Karchere I as an 8, work a lot in the territory of control. I personally thrive on clear organizational structure, knowing who’s in...

by Helena Karchere February 13, 2013November 15, 2023
Relationships

Sex, Love, and Your Personality -Love that lasts

Mona Coates and Judith Searle In my many years as a therapist [Mona], I’ve continually marveled at two basic—and seemingly contradictory—realities of the human...

by Mons Coates and Judith Searle February 13, 2013May 3, 2025
Relationships Type 2 Type 6

The Giver/Detective (Two-Six) Couple

Jennifer P. Schneider and Ron Corn Here is another chapter from our forthcoming book on using the enneagram to understand and improve your primary...

by Jennifer P. Schneider and Ron Corn February 13, 2013November 15, 2023
Relationships Type 8 Type 9

Sex, Love, and Your Personality (8 & 9) in love

Social Type Eight & Nine in Love Mona Coates and Judith Searle The Eight Social subtype, which Ichazo associates with “friendship,” focuses on being...

by Mona Coates and Judith Searle January 13, 2013May 3, 2025
Relationships Type 1 Type 4

Perfectionist-Romantic (One-Four) Couple

Jennifer P. Schneider and Ron Corn Here is another chapter from our forthcoming book on using the enneagram to understand and improve your primary...

by Jennifer P. Schneider and Ron Corn January 13, 2013November 15, 2023
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