The Double Leader (8-8) Relationship
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Jennifer P. Schneider M.D. and Ron Corn M.S.W
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“So are you a cowardly custard?”
“I’m not frightened.”
“Neither am I frightened.”
“Well, then, take it.”
“Well, then, you take it.”
Then rather curiously they both snapped out the same remark:
“Shut up!”
“Shut up!”
-- From: Peter Pan by J.M. Barrie
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