as Seen by a Type Four With a Type Nine Husband

Laurie Huffman
By brief way of introduction, I am a 4 with equal 3 and 5 wings, and my husband Ken is a 9 with a 1 wing, although he seems to have some tendency to 8 wing characteristics, as well. Neither of us claims to be any kind of an expert with the Enneagram. We have studied Don Riso’s books, particularly Personality Types, since 1989, and try to use that knowledge to improve our relationships with family and friends.
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