Chubby, charming and cheerful, Myra was a woman well positioned in society when I first met her. A few years earlier she had immigrated to Italy to escape the harsh realities in her country of origin. Barely out of her teens, she had married a type Eight, Paolo, who was much older. Her marriage appeared rather uneventful in spite of Paolo’s difficult character and the birth of several children.

Numerous household chores and frequent financial difficulties did not dampen her liveliness. E...

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