Gillian and I had written and re-written her dating profile now for almost two sessions together. We started as you might think, with an outline of the qualities and characteristics she’d wanted in other people, the low-hanging fruit, the stuff that’s easy to spot. Then we moved into the ones she knew she’d be able to offer from her point of view. But it felt incomplete and we were missing the real essence of what Gillian wanted to convey. It wasn’t until we started exploring what she wanted, no...
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