When we ponder about events and why they happen, it’s natural to categorize each issue we experience and see if it fits a familiar pattern. Looking for patterns is a tendency of the mind, and so is explaining the pattern with a theory of some kind. If our expectations are met and the pattern fits our world-view, we accept and set aside that issue and move on.
Theories we accepted in our younger years may not have been very solid, still we may feel reluctant to questio...
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