Tom:  Could I work with you on what you talked about? The driving? Which chair would you like? That one, okay.                       
Jan:  It’s taller.
Tom:  It’s taller; I’ll be shorter. Now you can use an assumed name. This is being recorded for publication, so I want to respect your privacy.
Jan:  (Firmly) For me that’s not important.
Tom:  (Firmly) Ok...

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