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  • Understanding the Enneagram
    • Centers of Intelligence
    • Triads
    • Passions
    • Fixations
    • Virtues
    • Holy Ideas
    • History
  • The Nine Types
    • Type Insights
      • Type 1
      • Type 2
      • Type 3
      • Type 4
      • Type 5
      • Type 6
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    • Instincts and Subtypes
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Relationships

Relationships Type 3

Sex, Love & Your Personality. Type Three: the Self-pres Achiever in Love

Threes make things happen in this world. They are energetic, goal-driven natural salespeople, adept first of all at selling themselves. When Threes think of...

by Mona Coates and Judith Searle September 9, 2012April 13, 2025
Relationships Type 7

Sex, Love, & Your Personality. Type Seven: The Enthusiast in Love

Explicit Warning: This article will be talking about topics related to sex. Sevens with a Sexual subtype, whom Ichazo associates with “suggestibility,” are enthusiastic...

by Mona Coates and Judith Searle June 30, 2012October 27, 2023
Communication Education Relationships Therapy and Counselling

Sex, Love & Your Personality: Type SP Seven, the Enthusiast in Love

Seven is one of the Enneagram styles associated with fear. While Fives cope with a threatening world by developing their mental capacities in isolation...

by Mona Coates and Judith Searle December 20, 2011September 20, 2023
Applications Family Dynamics Personal Growth/Self-Development Relationships The Nine Types Type 1 Type Insights

Sexy Dancing, One-Style

by Katharine Rawls About a year ago, I was with my Type Six boyfriend at his son’s small-venue rock concert when my boyfriend pulled...

by Katharine Rawls November 18, 2011December 22, 2023
Applications Relationships The Nine Types Type 1 Type Insights

Sex, Love & Your Personality type 1

Type One, the Perfectionist in Love Mona Coates and Judith Searle Ones are generally focused on improving themselves and the world around them. Self-preservation...

by Mona Coates and Judith Searle November 11, 2011May 3, 2025
Book Reviews Relationships

Sex, Love & Your Personality – Type Two, the Caretaker in Love

Twos at all levels of health seek to win love through serving and helping others. Because average Twos are out of touch with their...

by Mona Coates and Judith Searle June 1, 2011September 26, 2023
Passions Relationships Therapy and Counselling Type Insights Understanding the Enneagram

Sex, Love and Your Personality –  The Nine Faces of Intimacy

What Makes a Healthy Relationship? As a therapist working with couples and individuals for over thirty-five years, much of my practice has been with...

by Mona Coates, Ph.D. and Judith Searle May 1, 2011September 30, 2023
Community Spotlights History Personal Growth/Self-Development Relationships

Celebrating the Life of Gail Samuels, 1933-2010

“I just know that learning this new system is going to keep my brain functioning at a high level for 20 years. I can...

by Muriel Vasconcellos April 21, 2010September 26, 2023
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